By Thania (Tate) Villatoro

location
Boston, MA
relationship
Tri Delta Sister

Anna & Patrick, You are close in my thoughts and prayers. May you feel the compassion and comfort of Christ in this uncomprehendable event. Spencer's life was a celebration, as evidenced by all the photos posted here. Your words in the obituary reflected this short but full circle. I was touched to hear he was a Boston Red Sox fan, since I am living here now and will thnk of him and your family with a prayer and a smile every time I pass by good 'ole Fenway Park. . . . Love and comfort to you, Thania

By Richard and Susan Park

location
Crockett, Texas
relationship
Wade & Sydney Glover

Having lost a child, we know the walk through the valley of death and we also know that God walks it with you. You can only do the first things once: the first Christmas, the first Birthday, and then the years begin to pile on. It is like when you are young and fell from your bike, the knee bled and it scarred. With time you see the scar, but it doesn’t openly bleed any more. It is such a sad walk, but please realize that you don’t take one step alone. Be kind to each other and remember that no two people grieve the same way. God loves you.

By The Bishops

location
Allen, TX
relationship
Friends

Dear Patrick, Anna and Ryan,

I have intended to write something on this website every day for the last several days but like so many others, I just cannot find the words. How can I provide any small amount of comfort to you at a time like this? There really is no answer- all I can do is let you know that I am here for you -ALL of you and share in the wonderful memories that my family and I hold of Spencer.

For the last several years, Spencer was Ben’s friend and teammate at soccer, baseball and basketball. What a team they made out on the soccer field! Ben has already said he will be making lots of goals for his friend Spencer. I’m smiling now thinking of a recent memory I have picking up the boys from basketball camp- Ben, Zack, Spencer and little Emma all in the backseat going to Sonic for a post workout treat. I can still hear Spencer now with his Dad’s Boston accent saying his favorite slush flavor was “charry”!

Although we have known the family for some time, it wasn’t until our families moved to the same neighborhood that not only did my son’s friendship with Spencer grow but my friendship with Anna blossomed over the many playdates at the park and girl talk in the carpool lane.

As this very long week has unfolded, I have seen a strength in both Anna and Patrick that anyone would be amazed by. In a time when most people including myself keep asking “Why? Why? Why?” both of you have kept your heads held high with tremendous faith in your hearts. Your overwhelming conviction has been a great inspiration to me and my family.

As a mother, I am in awe of your courage Anna. As a friend, I am in awe of your grace, generosity, strength and substance. This is what Spencer saw in his Mother and this is what he keeps with him as he looks down upon you from heaven.

Our hearts are with you Anna, Patrick and Ryan as they are with Spencer. He will always be a part of our family.

All our love,

Michele, Andy, Ben and Emma

By Allison McPhail

location
Ashland, Kansas
relationship

Squire Family,
I recieved a prayer request from my Aunt in Texas this week praying for your son Spencer. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. In somewhat of a way I feel your pain. Six years ago I lost my 11month old nephew who was shaken. No words can describe the pain of loosing a child. All anyone can do is let time heal your pain and pray to your baby boy everyday. It helped heal our family to talk about all the memories daily. Keep Spencer so close to your heart and mind. I believe God has a big purpose and plan for Spencer and your family should be so proud. My family and friends will continue to think and pray for your family daily.

May God Hold Your Tissue & Catch Your Tears,

Allison McPhail

By Cathy Burkel

location
Frisco
relationship

There are no words to describe how you feel now and for the rest of your life. I lost my son in an accident 6 years ago and it seems like yesterday. He is the first thing I think about when I get up and the last thing I think about when I go to bed. God has belssed me through my surrendering my son to his glorious will. I pray you find Gods sweet peace and strength to find your way through this most tremendous loss. Your Spencer sounds like her was an angel on earth. You are blessed to have had him. Stay close to God for he will send you a comforter and you will know it is the holy sprirt.. May you see signs and wonders especially for you. I will pray for your family. Also I think it is a wonderful thing that he donated his organs for that was a great act of love and kindness. I hope in some small way you will feel a part of him still lives within others. I am so sorry for your suffering. God bless you all.

By Jaime Hale

location
Boston, MA
relationship
Aggie

I read about Spencer in the Boston Globe this past Sunday. Prayers from all the New England area Aggies

By Kelly Oltmann

location
Frisco, TX
relationship
teacher

Dearest Squire Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you all at this time of almost unbearable grief. Please know that you are being wrapped in our prayers. Spencer was filled with God's Holy light every minute of his precious life. Everytime he walked into the room, the whole place seemed to come alive with his spirit. His zest for life and gentle soul will live on through all of those people he touched in his short life. He will be greatly missed. God bless you.

Sincerely,
The Oltmann family
Kelly, Steve, Macy and Abby

By Rosalie & Steve Stephens

location
Allen
relationship
neighbor

We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. May the joy and light of sweet Spencer's memory be a comfort to you during this time of grief. We are keeping your family in our hearts and prayers. God bless you.

By Victoria Squire

location
Lousiville, Kentucky
relationship
cousin

dear uncle patrick and auntie anna,
I am so sorry for your loss. Spencer was full of life, loved others, and was one of the best cousins I have ever had. While Spencer was with us he was so caring and loving and i know he lived his life with pure happiness. Spencer is in a very good place right now and I know we will all see him in heaven. I know the family is very strong. Hopefully see you all and cousin Ryan soon.

Love,
Victoria Squire

By Kassie Paul

location
Frisco
relationship
CDC and VBS

I was sadden to read about your loss of Sweet Spencer. Our family will PRAY HARD for you during this difficult time. It was always a pleasure to see Anna dropping off Spencer at CDC, he was always so excited to get on with his day, and even more happy to see his mom at the end of the day to tell her all about it! I will always remember him with a smile!

By Sherry Campbell

location
Frisco
relationship
CRUMC

Spencer,
I loved seeing you every T/Th, wearing your most recent sport t-shirt. I can't remember a recess time when you were not kicking our soccer ball or playing BB with your buddies. You always had room for one more on your team! What a team player! You are on God's team now--cheering us on. I will miss you! Thank you Anna, for bringing Spencer by my room last year when you came to pick up Ryan--his visits always made my day! All my love and prayers.

Sherry

By John and Mary Squire

location
Weymouth, Massachussetts
relationship
Grandparents

To our dearest little boy, we wrote this poem especially for you and know you will be our guiding star:

His life was like a shooting star,
A brilliant gleam
So swift, then gone
Leaving us in darkness

His heart was like a shining sun
A glowing warmth
So steady, so strong
Wrapping us in love

His memory will be a healing balm
An outstretched hand
We'll hold so tight
Leading us to peace.
--Grandma

By The Rountrees

location

relationship

We are praying for you all.

Tim and Rachel Rountree (Elizabeth Warmath's nephew)

By Ellen (Proctor) Lux

location
Allen, TX
relationship

Anna,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. The hardest thing that can happen to a parent is loosing a child. Although we never had a chance to meet Spencer and I've lost touch with you since High School, there is no doubt what a wonderfully blessed child Spencer must have been with you as his mom! Please know that we are to help in anyway.

By Jim O'Toole

location
Weymouth
relationship
Friend

Dear Pat & Anna,
We are saddened to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy and prayers for peace & comfort are sent to you both and Ryan.
Tracy & I have read everything about Spencer's life, hobbies & passions and have truly seen the love and inspiration Spencer brought to everyone who knew him.
The pictures and information about Spencer really tells a true story of your lives,faith and hope. We truly wish we could be closer to extend our condolences. When the timing is right, please call so we may have the opportunity to talk.
Love & Heartfelt prayers,
The O'Toole Family
Jim,Tracy,James & Erin

By Jeff & Melanie Wynne

location
Dallas, TX
relationship
Friends

Dear Anna, Pat and Ryan,

For my wife Melanie, daughter Alex son Cameron and myself our hearts and prayers are with you. Saturday's Celebration of Spencer's life was very moving and emotional for me. Your son's smile is contagious and the love he brought to you and all of his friends and family was quite evident. I am truly moved by your strength and passion for family and know that Spencer is with you forever. Ryan is a blessed child to have parents like you and a loving family to help him grow up and be strong. Anna your fathers moment in the Childrens Garden was beautiful. He is such a proud grandfather with such wonderful memories of Spencer. You are a wonderful family and we truly wish you comfort in the comings days and forever.

All our Love, Melanie, Jeff, Alex and Cameron Wynne

By John T. Edge

location
Brownsville
relationship
College pal

Chief, Anna & Ryan

The overwhelming display of love and affection for Spencer and your family is moving beyond words. For those of us who never knew Spencer it gives us a glimpse into a life of joy, passion and fun...the way we should all live our lives and the way Spencer should be remembered. I love you guys Chief.

John, Felicia, Tomas & Lucky Edge

By Gregg Wynne

location
Louisville, KY
relationship
Friend

Anna, Pat, & Ryan:

Words can't express anything near what you are going through. We want you to know that our hearts go out to you and if there is anything we can do for you please don't hesitate to let us know.

Our Deepest Sympathy To You,

The Kentucky Wynne Family -
Gregg, Monette, Ranger, Gisele, & Marlee Wynne

By Brenda Scholl

location
Temple
relationship
Mom Deborah Licare

My prayers are with your and your family. Know he is in God's loving arms.

By Sturgeon Family

location
Allen, Tx
relationship
CDC, CUMC, Boon

Anna, Pat, & Ryan -

We are heartbroken about Spencer. Please know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers. I can tell you that Jenna loved Spencer. I remember the day she came home from kindergarten and told me she saw Spencer on the play ground. At first I thought she must have been confused because I didn’t yet know you had moved, but of course (as always) she was right, and so happy to have a friend from CDC with her at Boon even if they weren’t in the same class. She always had so much fun with Spencer at CDC. Whenever I was at Boon and would see Spencer, he always greeted me with his big blue eyes and his bright smile. He was an angel. Jenna will miss him as will all of his little friends. When I told her about Spencer, I told her no one knew it was going to happen and she smiled and said “God knew it was going to happen”. There is some peace in that thought. I also want you to know that Spencer is the new hero of my (almost 5 year old) son, Ethan. Ethan only knew Spencer through Jenna, but he does remember Spencer both from CDC and Boon. After the CUMC service, he wanted to hang Spencer’s name tribute and medal on the wall in his room next to his other sports stuff. Spencer will continue to remind us all to love life, to live lovingly, and to never to forget the importance of family. I am so sorry it is your painful loss that has reminded so many of us of this important life lesson.

Much love and sympathy -
Stacy, Jenna & Ethan Sturgeon

By Coach G Guerrieri

location
College Station, Tx
relationship
Aggie Soccer Coach

We are all stunned and deeply saddened at Spensor's passing. I am proud to have been around him and to have had the opportunity to have him as part of our A&M soccer fmaily as a camper. Thank you for posting the photo of me and Spenser. I am proud to have known him.

God bless all the Squire family and thank you for bringing Spenser into our lives.

Rest in Peace and Gig 'em,
~Coach G

By Janet Girardi (Cunningham

location
Somerville MA
relationship
Family

Dear Squire Family,

We are so sorry for your tragic loss. My brother Tom Cunningham and Dee spoke of your children often, and were very loved. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

By Merritt and Ed Dobecka

location
Keller, Texas
relationship
friends

Anna, Patrick and Ryan,
I write this to you with such sadness but mostly because Ed and I have not been here to support you. We returned to the States today and while we were not here physically, you and your family have been in our thoughts and prayers daily. We love you all so much and while we are so saddened, we are also so greatful for having had the chance to know such an amazing young man. What joy he has brought to others and how much he has given. I purchased an Aggie ABC book today and am donating it in Spencer's name to my school library so that his love of Aggieland and the Aggie Spirit can be shared with the children at my school as well. Just think, each day, he will be able to be a part of so many children's lives! Please know we love you all and are here for you.

By Resa Weaver

location
Plano, tx
relationship
Team mate

Our family is so sorry for your loss. Mason was new to the Astros this year, but I know how much he enjoyed playing with Spencer. He was a star on and off the field.

Our Deepest Sympathy,
Todd, Resa, Mason and Mitchell Weaver

By Amy E. Owen

location
San Antonio, TX
relationship

May God hold you and keep you during this difficult time.

By Flynn Family

location
Westwood, MA
relationship
friend

Patrick, Anna, Ryan, Writing from home today wishing I could have stayed with you longer during this difficult time. Carol, Caleigh, Riley, Kelsey and I love you and will continue to have you in our hearts and prayers. The outpouring of support is evidence of the affect Spencer had on everyone he came in contact with as well as a testament to the way people feel about you. It is unbelievable how many lives have been touched. 'Big Pat' Kirksey said it best: "I've never seen two people have such a positive / lasting affect on the people they meet." I look forward to seeing all of you more often. Mike Flynn

By Mike Middleton

location
BEA
relationship
colleague of Pat's

Pat & Anna,
I am stunned and deeply sadened. We have lost a great Aggie and I will think of you guys each game day!

By Buddy and Shirley DuBoise

location
Lockhart, TX
relationship
friends

"K-K", Patrick, Ryan, Pat, Patsy, Margo, Chris, Sophia, & all of Patrick's family: Our hearts hurt for all of you. We know that nothing we say can ease your pain. So, we will do the only thing that can possibly help...we will continue praying for your family. We could feel the presence of the Holy Spirit at Spencer's memorial service. May God continue to grant you peace, comfort, and strength, as you face the days ahead. Our love and prayers are with you.

By Lou & Sonny Presnal

location
Bryan, TX
relationship
Pat & Patsy's friend

To Pat & Patsy and all of your lovely family,
Our hearts are heavy wirh your loss of such a dear little boy, which we know Spencer was.
We cannot even imagine the hurt the entire family is feeling now, but know that God's love will help see you through.
Spencer's memory will forever be in your hearts.
His story touched many Aggies on TexAgs.com.
May God comfort you all.
Lou & Sonny

By Linda Squire

location
Louisville, Kentucky
relationship
Auntie

Dear Anna and Patrick,
As I am writing this, all of the Squires, the Kirkseys, many relatives and friends are gathering for Spencer's,
final service. Spencer's cousins, Jonathan, Victoria, Alexandra, and I are there with you in spirit and in love. Since I cannot be there, I have put my thoughts to words and have written my own tribute to Spencer. I pray that it may bring you, and perhaps others too, some small comfort.

The question is timeless. It is asked by both the young and the old alike. "What is my purpose here on the earth?" At sometime in our lives each on of us has questioned the reason for his own existence.

Reflecting on the life of Spencer Patton Squire, I think I know a little bit of why Spencer came to be among us. Spencer came to teach us how to love.

In his living and in his passing we have learned better the lessons of love. In his irresistible smile and in his boundless energy, we have seen a complete and utter zest for life. In his passing we have witnessed the power of love, the power to draw us closer, the power to give us strength. Thank you, dearest little Spencer, for sharing with us your gift of love.

By June and Eddie Vogel

location
Lockhart, Texas
relationship
Friends

Dear Patrick, Anna Kathryn, Ryan, Pat, Patsy, Chris, Margo, and Sophia
This web site is such a wonderful tribute of love for Spencer. With all the pictures and letters it is evident the number of lives this precious boy touched. The hardest thing a parent can do is bury a child. Their age doesn't matter - young or old. The pain and grief from the loss is the same and sometimes unbearable. That is when your faith in God is so very important. HE WILL GIVE YOU STRENGTH AND COMFORT in the days ahead. Believe us when we say we know what you are going through and we are here whenever you need us. Our prayers and thoughts are with each one of you.
Love and Peace in Christ's Name
June and Eddie

By Susan Roan

location
Boston MA
relationship
Boston Globe obits

Please know the Boston Globe personnel who worked with Spenser's notice were touched and saddened by his story and fell in love with his picture.

Our deepest sympathy. His spirit shone through in his picture.
Susan Roan

By Maria and David Colon

location
Alexandria, VA
relationship
Family Friends

Pat, Anna and Ryan,
Although we were only with Spencer for a few hours our memories of his bright smile and enthusiasm will be with us forever. Spencer has touched the lives of many and left with us inspiration, rich memories and joyful thoughts. Maria Pilar and I hope that your family will find strength and peace in your own relationship with Spencer. Those thoughts are like precious jewels you will carry from now to eternity.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We offer our deepest sympathy.

With love and prayers,

Maria Pilar and David Colon

By Shirlee Schupbach

location
Plano, Texas
relationship
Friend

We have never met, but I am Shannon Schupbach's grandmother.

As I write this, I am overcome with tears. I am very sorry about the loss of your precious son. It's easy to say "I understand how you feel", but I really do. You see, I lost my son, Cris, in 1993. I had 35 years to love him. I still miss him, but I am so glad I had that much time with him. Spencer will always be in your heart and you will have your wonderful memories.

There aren't any words that will make it better right now. You must take the time to grieve. Eventually, it won't hurt quite as much.

Know that your family will be in the thoughts and prayers of many people.

By Cynthia Jokinen

location
Greene Me.
relationship
none

I am sorry you all lost Spencer. I am a college student who is styuding to work with chidren from 6 weeks to 7. Children are very precious and oh! so special. I hve three chidren who are all grown up,. Spencer, rest in Peace and I am glad your pain is no longer Cindy J

By Alexandra Squire

location
Louisville, Kentucky
relationship
Cousin

Dear Auntie Anna and Uncle Patrick,
Whenever I was around my cousin, Spencer, either in Boston during the summer, Lockhart for Thanksgiving, Plano for Ryan's baptism, The Balsam's in New Hampshire, Louisville for my First Communion, or chatting on the phone (Sometimes he could talk forever !), he always brightened my day and made me smile.

I am going to miss watching him grow up and my first Aggie game with him but I know he will be with us all in spirit.

As I am writing this now you are getting ready for the service in Lockhart and I wish I could be there to pay tribute to my cousin. I couldn't have asked for a better, loving cousin.

Love,
Alexandra

By Linda Squire

location
Louisville , Kentucky
relationship
Auntie

Dearest Anna and Patrick,
Our grief is overwhelming and our family is heartbroken. Spencer, our shining star, may be absent from our sight, but our everlasting love for him remains forever in our hearts.
My deepest sympathy, my deepest love,
Linda

By Diane (Vitello) Crisileo

location
Weymouth, MA
relationship
High School Friend

Patrick,
I have thought of you often through the years since high school wondering how and where you were. I see that you married a beautiful woman and have two incredibly wonderful children.

I have two children as well, Peter and Lauren, and when I heard about Spencer all I could do was hug them a little tighter and reflect on how precious life truly is.

It is obvious from all of the beautiful photos that Spencer is an incredible child with his Dad's spirit. You always had a way of making me smile in high school and I see Spencer has that same quality.

May God Bless you and your family in the days and years to come. May you find comfort in your memories of Spencer and know that his organ donation is such a wonderful gift that will always keep giving.

With heartfelt sincerity,
Diane Vitello

By Dave Handal

location
Dallas
relationship
Friend

Pat, Anna, and Ryan,

I don't even know where to begin. I wish that I had the right words to comfort you in this horrible time.

Spence came into my life about 4 years ago, when Kasen (my 6 year old son) came home from the first day of pre-school and wouldn't stop talking about his new friend that he just met at school. After about a few weeks of non-stop talk about Spencer by Kasen, I told Kasen that I had to meet this kid that he held in such high regard. So, I picked Kasen up from Custer Road Church one day, where Kasen and Spencer were in Pre-School together, and I went inside inside to finally meet Spencer. And as you can imagine when I walked into Kasen and Spencer's classroom they were giving their teacher all she could handle (I know that surprises you). I just remember thinking to myself, that this probably won't be the last time that these two will be getting in trouble together. And, ofcourse it wasn't.

I just knew that we would be watching Kasen and Spence grow up and grow old together. Unfortunately that was not the case, but during Spence's short time with us, our families have shared so many special moments. The teams that Kasen and Spence played on together are already countless, but the memories that they have shared are priceless. We just could not wait for Kasen to finally start playing football in a league with Spence this Fall. Although, I think these two have been playing football together in their own leage since they met, regardless if they were in their classroom at school, inside both of our houses, or in both of our backyards. Spence won't be there on the field with Kasen this Fall , but he will always be in Kasen's heart and on his mind every step of the way, as well as mine, Jill's and Keegan's.

Spence was very special to us, just as your family is too. I am very thankful that I got to be apart of Spence's life and especially thankful that I got to spend his last few days with him on the Berkner football field, watching him do what he loved to do the most, which was playing and having fun with all of his friends. Spence was non-stop, care free, and just so full of happiness until the very end. We can all learn so many lessons from Spence and how he loved life.

Spence, you are an inspiration for all of us. How you battled,fought and never gave up until the very end is remarkable. That is why the Berkner Football Team is dedicating their 2007 Football Season to you. Every Berkner Ram football player will wear a black sticker with your initials on it on the back of their helmet in your honor. You will serve as a constant reminder to our players,caoches, and community to live and appreciate life to the fullest and to never give up.

Spence, although you lived in Allen and your dad would always take you to the Allen Eagle games, instead of the Berkner games. There was no way that I was going to stand for you to go to Allen HS and be an Eagle. I was going to do all that I could to make sure that you would go to Berkner and be a Ram with Kasen. Which ofcourse meant that you would be playing for me, and as much as I would have hated to have to put up with your Dad questioning me on a daily basis, it would have been a blast and well worth it. I just know that you are up in heaven right now with your Berkner Rams jersey on waiting for your partner in crime Kasen.

We love you Pat, Anna,and Ryan so much, and I wish you strength through all of this.

And Spence, we are so blessed that you came into our lives, we are better people because of you. We will never forget you. We love you!!!

Coach Dave, Jill, Kasen, and Keegan Handal

By Gary and Peggy Allen

location
Lockhart
relationship
Friends

Dear Patrick and Anna,
Our most sincere sympathy to all of you at this very, very sad time. Gary and I feel so blessed to have received the Christmas, Halloween and Easter pictures of Spencer and Ryan every year. Although we didn't get to see the boys as often as we would have liked, we were always so happy to hear from you and see how much they had grown. Of course, I did get to hear some wonderful "proud grandmother" stories from your Mom from time to time. We hope the precious memories you have of the joy Spencer brought to all your lives give you peace and comfort. Our love and friendship to all of you.

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