By Amy and Lee Bowers

location
Allen, TX
relationship
Family Friend

Dearest Squire Family -

Lee and I were so saddened to hear of your great loss today. You are in all our thoughts and prayers. I know Spencer will live on forever in the hearts of all the lives he has touched. What an forgettable smile! May your strong faith continue to guide you through this most difficult journey.

Sincerely,

Amy and Lee Bowers

By Dwayne Frei

location
Temple, Texas
relationship
fellow Aggie

Spencer sounded like an amazing child and a great Aggie. My wife, sons (six and four), and I wish to express our deepest sympathies and pray for strength and peace for your family. I am honored to contribute to his school fund. May God bless you all.

By Scott Carr & family

location
Dallas
relationship
friend of Pat's

Pat and family,

My family and I are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son, Spencer. As a fellow parent, I cannot even begin to conceive what you must be going through.

God’s speed, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,
Scott Carr and family

By Mari-Margaret Hunter

location
Evans, Georgia
relationship
Family Friend

Dear K.K., Patrick & Ryan,

Even after getting back to a relativley normal life in Georgia, I still have trouble wrapping my mind around the events of the last 10 days. To me, It is just still so surreal and wrong. But, what I have learned from precious Spencer's all too short life is a lesson I intend to apply in my everyday life. To try and live life to the fullest and to remember how precious our time in this life is. I think Spencer knew that from day one. He certainly lived his life that way. I was so touched to hear so many wonderful memories re-lived by some that knew him best at the funeral service. Spencer experienced and achieved so much in his life that it is hard to believe he was just a child. Every parent should be so lucky to have a child like him, and every child should be so lucky to have the family and friends that surrounded him so lovingly till the end.

We will miss you Spencer and you will forever be the Delta group's first grandchild and our little angel in heaven.

Love,
Mari-Margaret, Chris, Ally and Maddie

By

location
MCKINNEY
relationship

god bless your family

By Paul Dorsey

location
Canton, MA.
relationship
friend

I just returned from a week long stay in Texas. A week
unmatched in my lifetime by the strongest showing of
faith that I have ever been witness to. It starts of course with Pat and Anna, their parents and their family's on down through their many friends as well as neighbors.
Many of us are told that you can tell a lot about a person
by whom he or she surrounds themselves with. Well, Pat and Anna, you guys wrote the book!
My time with Spencer, like his life was brief, yet quality.
Sure, there was the Make Way for Duckling's book that
I gave to him as a newborn. Anna, I am so glad that you were able to experience the Swan Boats with Spencer
up in Boston's Public Garden. That meant a lot to me.
And, then there was the Coco Crisp Red Sox jersey on yet another Boston trip. Spencer must have thanked me a million times, all unprovoked and each one sincere.
But, there is undoubtedly one moment I had with the Squire family on a trip to Dallas I made this past February that I would like to share. One morning we all set off to the Plano Rec.Center for one of Spencer's
basketball games. As we were enroute, I gave Spencer a little pep-talk, asking him that if he were to score a
basket, to give me the "thumbs up" sign. The ball was no sooner tipped when Spencer took a few dribbles upcourt and unleashed about a 15 footer. As the ball swished through the net, Spencer had already started to turn to find me so as to give me the "thumbs up" sign. I
will never forget his beautiful smile as he did all this. It
was as if he patented the "thumbs up" sign all by himself, the way he did it.
It doesn't end there though, as Anna and I cheered from
the stands I caught his Dad's eye, the scorekeeper at
mid-court. He gave me, (as only he can) his own head nod and eyebrow raise as if to say ya that's my son, get
used to it Dorse it's a long game.
Pat, as you and Anna were there for me in my time of need, not so long ago. I want you both to know that I am here in yours. Although we all wish Spencer's game was still continuing, I know and truly believe he is in a better place.
As little Ryan summed up the week so beautifully, you're
gonna make it! Pat and Anna, you have us all, but more importantly you have eachother. And even more import- ant than that, you have your faith. May God bless
you during this difficult time.

Paul Dorsey Jr.

By Don and Diana Antoniello

location
Arlington, Texas
relationship

Our daughter, son-in-law, and grandchildren (the Goedderz family) live on Comal Drive. We are heartbroken for all of you and are praying for your family during this time of grief.

By Donna Goode

location
Dallas/Austin
relationship
Worked with Pat

Dear Pat and Anna,

I am so sorry to hear this sad news abourt your beautiful son. May you be blessed with strength and wisdom to bear this tremendous loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,
Donna Goode

By Stacey Thoele

location
Dallas, TX
relationship
former colleague

Dear Patrick and family,

My heart broke when I read about your son in the Dallas Morning News. I told my husband that it had to be your son. I am sure that Spencer shared your zest for life, sports and the Aggies and was a very special little boy. My deepest heartfelt sympathy for you and your family, such a horrible tragedy. You, Anna and Ryan will be in my prayers and thoughts always.

Stacey Thoele
former colleague and friend

By Uncle Chris

location
Boston
relationship
Uncle

Dear Pat, Anna and Ryan,
This past week has been almost unbearable for me but because of your example of courage and faith, I will always be able to draw upon your strength when things in my life are difficult. I have been thinking about how the reciprocal love of our families and your friends, your faith in God, Texas and Texas A&M has provided for you and all of us a conduit for the grief of losing such a fine son, nephew and friend; a conduit that for me has led to some comfort in knowing that Spence is all right now. As Spencer’s uncle I had hoped to do a lot of boating & camping in New England, as well as going to many more Red Sox, Patriot and Aggie games with him but like everyone else we always thought we would have the time. We will definitely do those things with you and Ryan whenever we can. I love you all and you are in my thoughts everyday--as always.
Uncle Chris

By Brittani Yoo & Davis

location
Plano
relationship
friend

We won't forget the swim lessons our boys shared at Elmer for few sessions. May God give you strength, wisdom, and courage during this time. You are in our prayers.

By David @Pam Mercadante

location
Plainville Mass.
relationship
Friend

Patrick@Anna my family and I are so saddened to hear of the loss of your son. When I came to Texas and you opened your home to me I was lucky enough to have met Spencer he was so full of life and your home full of love. He will always be with you.

By Sherry (Schroeder) Hyland

location
Portland, Texas
relationship
Lockhart Friend

Kirksey and Squire Families,
It is so hard to find the right words when such a tragedy occurs. My heart is broken for you. When we lost our baby 14 months ago, I will never forget what a dear friend said to me: "Jesus' arms are around you and so are mine." I want to say that to you now. That simple statement has truly comforted me many times since then, and I hope that it also comforts you in the days, weeks, and years ahead. Please know that we are praying for you to find the strength to live fully again--the way your little Spencer so obviously did.
Very sincerely,
The Hyland"s-- John, Sherry, William, and Daniel

By Mary Ann Masey

location
Weatherford,Tx.
relationship
Friend of the family

Though our paths didn't manage to cross, I saw you grow (looking more and more like Grandad Pat) into such a charming young boy with each Christmas card.
I think God must be smiling to welcome such a handsome new angel.
So try to wipe your tears and know that he's with our Heavenly Father in some awfully good company

By Don Cowan

location
Austin
relationship
Distant Cousins

I didn't know Spencer, but looking at the Obituary it appears he packed a lot of life into his 6 years. My heart goes out to all of Spencer's family.

My Mother and Spencer's Grandmother are second cousins, so I've heard a lot about the Squire family. Being the Christian family that you are I'm sure you will overcome this devastating tragedy.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

By Shirley Burgess

location
Big Spring, Texas 79720
relationship
Friend

I am Amy Hargroves Mom. I am just learning about what has happened to Spencer. I met Spencer one time at Christmas,06 and found him to be a precious, energetic little boy and a loving friend of my grandson Zack. Being a kindergarten teacher I could only imagine the fun in Mrs. English's class with those little boys.You are in my heart and prayers.

By Molly Brown

location
Lockhart, TX
relationship
friend Kirksey's

Anna and family,
Everything that could be said, has been. Beautiful tribute to a wonderful young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

By Auntie Deirdre, Uncle Tom

location
Boston, MA
relationship
Loving Aunt & Uncle

Dear Anna, Pat and Ryan,

This has been the most difficult time for Tom and I. Spencer meant the world to us. We were always so excited when you all were coming to Boston for a visit and we could not wait to visit with Spencer and Ryan.

We are so saddened by this devastating loss and I know words cannot accurately convey how heartbroken and sad Tom and I are for this huge void to our family.

Tom's fondest memories of Spencer are playing with him on numerous occassions - at the hotel in Boston, when Spencer yelled out 'hey, Uncle Tom, come sit over here and play playstation with me!' -- or in in the pool at The Balsams where Uncle Tom played with Spencer. Uncle Tom had so much fun with Spence laughing and playing. They both had so much fun together!

My fondest memories with Spencer were many, but imparticular, was on our trip to Carmel and San Francisco. Spencer came in my room some mornings jumping on me from the end of the bed into my arms where I hugged him tight and kissed his precious face each time he jumped. He laughed and laughed and his big blue eyes were filled with joy. Or when I tried to keep up with him in the hotel lobby -- wow, he was so quick!. He wore out his Auntie!.....These are such precious memories for myself and Tom and we will never forget the joy this darling boy brought to our lives.

I realize now that Spencer was put on this earth to make a difference. He had a huge impact on each person he met. He has so many friends and family that love him so much. He lived each day to the fullest with zest, compassion, enthusiasism, care, respect and love. His time on earth was short, too short, but he loved many and was loved by many during this time.

I know Spencer is looking down on us with his angel wings, and I also know that I will think of Spencer every day of my life. He was a remarkable little boy that his auntie and uncle loved very, very much. Love, Auntie D and Uncle T.

By Linda Massey

location
Irving, TX
relationship
Friend of Family

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Spencer. The sweet pictures on your Christmas cards made me feel as if I knew him. While we had lost touch over the years, your family is always in my heart.

Hold each other close during this time. The love of your family and friends will sustain you. Know that God shares your pain and tears. He loves you and will stand by you through this time.

By Sandi Neff

location
Allen
relationship
Boon Elementary

It was an honor to have known your precious son, Spencer. His Boon family will miss him so very much. My thoughts and prays are with your family.

By Fred Willms

location
Lockhart, TX
relationship
Family Friend

Patrick, Anna, Pat, and Patsy,
Betty and I, along with David, Tommy, Jerry, and Shelley, are very saddened by your loss of such a marvelous child. Having been family friends for many years truly adds to our sorrow. Anna, we have known and loved you from the day you were born, and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. We love all of you.
Fred Willms

By Thania (Tate) Villatoro

location
Boston, MA
relationship
Tri Delta Sister

Anna & Patrick, You are close in my thoughts and prayers. May you feel the compassion and comfort of Christ in this uncomprehendable event. Spencer's life was a celebration, as evidenced by all the photos posted here. Your words in the obituary reflected this short but full circle. I was touched to hear he was a Boston Red Sox fan, since I am living here now and will thnk of him and your family with a prayer and a smile every time I pass by good 'ole Fenway Park. . . . Love and comfort to you, Thania

By Richard and Susan Park

location
Crockett, Texas
relationship
Wade & Sydney Glover

Having lost a child, we know the walk through the valley of death and we also know that God walks it with you. You can only do the first things once: the first Christmas, the first Birthday, and then the years begin to pile on. It is like when you are young and fell from your bike, the knee bled and it scarred. With time you see the scar, but it doesn’t openly bleed any more. It is such a sad walk, but please realize that you don’t take one step alone. Be kind to each other and remember that no two people grieve the same way. God loves you.

By The Bishops

location
Allen, TX
relationship
Friends

Dear Patrick, Anna and Ryan,

I have intended to write something on this website every day for the last several days but like so many others, I just cannot find the words. How can I provide any small amount of comfort to you at a time like this? There really is no answer- all I can do is let you know that I am here for you -ALL of you and share in the wonderful memories that my family and I hold of Spencer.

For the last several years, Spencer was Ben’s friend and teammate at soccer, baseball and basketball. What a team they made out on the soccer field! Ben has already said he will be making lots of goals for his friend Spencer. I’m smiling now thinking of a recent memory I have picking up the boys from basketball camp- Ben, Zack, Spencer and little Emma all in the backseat going to Sonic for a post workout treat. I can still hear Spencer now with his Dad’s Boston accent saying his favorite slush flavor was “charry”!

Although we have known the family for some time, it wasn’t until our families moved to the same neighborhood that not only did my son’s friendship with Spencer grow but my friendship with Anna blossomed over the many playdates at the park and girl talk in the carpool lane.

As this very long week has unfolded, I have seen a strength in both Anna and Patrick that anyone would be amazed by. In a time when most people including myself keep asking “Why? Why? Why?” both of you have kept your heads held high with tremendous faith in your hearts. Your overwhelming conviction has been a great inspiration to me and my family.

As a mother, I am in awe of your courage Anna. As a friend, I am in awe of your grace, generosity, strength and substance. This is what Spencer saw in his Mother and this is what he keeps with him as he looks down upon you from heaven.

Our hearts are with you Anna, Patrick and Ryan as they are with Spencer. He will always be a part of our family.

All our love,

Michele, Andy, Ben and Emma

By Allison McPhail

location
Ashland, Kansas
relationship

Squire Family,
I recieved a prayer request from my Aunt in Texas this week praying for your son Spencer. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. In somewhat of a way I feel your pain. Six years ago I lost my 11month old nephew who was shaken. No words can describe the pain of loosing a child. All anyone can do is let time heal your pain and pray to your baby boy everyday. It helped heal our family to talk about all the memories daily. Keep Spencer so close to your heart and mind. I believe God has a big purpose and plan for Spencer and your family should be so proud. My family and friends will continue to think and pray for your family daily.

May God Hold Your Tissue & Catch Your Tears,

Allison McPhail

By Cathy Burkel

location
Frisco
relationship

There are no words to describe how you feel now and for the rest of your life. I lost my son in an accident 6 years ago and it seems like yesterday. He is the first thing I think about when I get up and the last thing I think about when I go to bed. God has belssed me through my surrendering my son to his glorious will. I pray you find Gods sweet peace and strength to find your way through this most tremendous loss. Your Spencer sounds like her was an angel on earth. You are blessed to have had him. Stay close to God for he will send you a comforter and you will know it is the holy sprirt.. May you see signs and wonders especially for you. I will pray for your family. Also I think it is a wonderful thing that he donated his organs for that was a great act of love and kindness. I hope in some small way you will feel a part of him still lives within others. I am so sorry for your suffering. God bless you all.

By Jaime Hale

location
Boston, MA
relationship
Aggie

I read about Spencer in the Boston Globe this past Sunday. Prayers from all the New England area Aggies

By Kelly Oltmann

location
Frisco, TX
relationship
teacher

Dearest Squire Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you all at this time of almost unbearable grief. Please know that you are being wrapped in our prayers. Spencer was filled with God's Holy light every minute of his precious life. Everytime he walked into the room, the whole place seemed to come alive with his spirit. His zest for life and gentle soul will live on through all of those people he touched in his short life. He will be greatly missed. God bless you.

Sincerely,
The Oltmann family
Kelly, Steve, Macy and Abby

By Rosalie & Steve Stephens

location
Allen
relationship
neighbor

We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. May the joy and light of sweet Spencer's memory be a comfort to you during this time of grief. We are keeping your family in our hearts and prayers. God bless you.

By Victoria Squire

location
Lousiville, Kentucky
relationship
cousin

dear uncle patrick and auntie anna,
I am so sorry for your loss. Spencer was full of life, loved others, and was one of the best cousins I have ever had. While Spencer was with us he was so caring and loving and i know he lived his life with pure happiness. Spencer is in a very good place right now and I know we will all see him in heaven. I know the family is very strong. Hopefully see you all and cousin Ryan soon.

Love,
Victoria Squire

By Kassie Paul

location
Frisco
relationship
CDC and VBS

I was sadden to read about your loss of Sweet Spencer. Our family will PRAY HARD for you during this difficult time. It was always a pleasure to see Anna dropping off Spencer at CDC, he was always so excited to get on with his day, and even more happy to see his mom at the end of the day to tell her all about it! I will always remember him with a smile!

By Sherry Campbell

location
Frisco
relationship
CRUMC

Spencer,
I loved seeing you every T/Th, wearing your most recent sport t-shirt. I can't remember a recess time when you were not kicking our soccer ball or playing BB with your buddies. You always had room for one more on your team! What a team player! You are on God's team now--cheering us on. I will miss you! Thank you Anna, for bringing Spencer by my room last year when you came to pick up Ryan--his visits always made my day! All my love and prayers.

Sherry

By John and Mary Squire

location
Weymouth, Massachussetts
relationship
Grandparents

To our dearest little boy, we wrote this poem especially for you and know you will be our guiding star:

His life was like a shooting star,
A brilliant gleam
So swift, then gone
Leaving us in darkness

His heart was like a shining sun
A glowing warmth
So steady, so strong
Wrapping us in love

His memory will be a healing balm
An outstretched hand
We'll hold so tight
Leading us to peace.
--Grandma

By The Rountrees

location

relationship

We are praying for you all.

Tim and Rachel Rountree (Elizabeth Warmath's nephew)

By Ellen (Proctor) Lux

location
Allen, TX
relationship

Anna,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. The hardest thing that can happen to a parent is loosing a child. Although we never had a chance to meet Spencer and I've lost touch with you since High School, there is no doubt what a wonderfully blessed child Spencer must have been with you as his mom! Please know that we are to help in anyway.

By Jim O'Toole

location
Weymouth
relationship
Friend

Dear Pat & Anna,
We are saddened to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy and prayers for peace & comfort are sent to you both and Ryan.
Tracy & I have read everything about Spencer's life, hobbies & passions and have truly seen the love and inspiration Spencer brought to everyone who knew him.
The pictures and information about Spencer really tells a true story of your lives,faith and hope. We truly wish we could be closer to extend our condolences. When the timing is right, please call so we may have the opportunity to talk.
Love & Heartfelt prayers,
The O'Toole Family
Jim,Tracy,James & Erin

By Jeff & Melanie Wynne

location
Dallas, TX
relationship
Friends

Dear Anna, Pat and Ryan,

For my wife Melanie, daughter Alex son Cameron and myself our hearts and prayers are with you. Saturday's Celebration of Spencer's life was very moving and emotional for me. Your son's smile is contagious and the love he brought to you and all of his friends and family was quite evident. I am truly moved by your strength and passion for family and know that Spencer is with you forever. Ryan is a blessed child to have parents like you and a loving family to help him grow up and be strong. Anna your fathers moment in the Childrens Garden was beautiful. He is such a proud grandfather with such wonderful memories of Spencer. You are a wonderful family and we truly wish you comfort in the comings days and forever.

All our Love, Melanie, Jeff, Alex and Cameron Wynne

By John T. Edge

location
Brownsville
relationship
College pal

Chief, Anna & Ryan

The overwhelming display of love and affection for Spencer and your family is moving beyond words. For those of us who never knew Spencer it gives us a glimpse into a life of joy, passion and fun...the way we should all live our lives and the way Spencer should be remembered. I love you guys Chief.

John, Felicia, Tomas & Lucky Edge

By Gregg Wynne

location
Louisville, KY
relationship
Friend

Anna, Pat, & Ryan:

Words can't express anything near what you are going through. We want you to know that our hearts go out to you and if there is anything we can do for you please don't hesitate to let us know.

Our Deepest Sympathy To You,

The Kentucky Wynne Family -
Gregg, Monette, Ranger, Gisele, & Marlee Wynne

By Brenda Scholl

location
Temple
relationship
Mom Deborah Licare

My prayers are with your and your family. Know he is in God's loving arms.

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